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Showing posts with label grateful. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grateful. Show all posts

Thursday, March 24, 2022

Challenges and Changes

Lately, I find myself using things in ways I never did before. Do you notice that for yourself?

Tonight I needed to open a sandwich I had bought at Publix. It was cased in what I believe is called a “clamshell” plastic box. I have bought these types of sandwiches at the deli in Ingles in Hayesville, NC where I live, and opened them. I don’t remember having any problem opening the sandwich box.

But tonight, I pulled the little strip of plastic off so that I could more easily open the box by pulling a flap of plastic. Nothing happened. I pulled again as hard as I could. I turned it and twisted it, but the plastic would not move. I was getting so mad and upset that I could not open the sandwich, and then I remembered that I had a pair of small needle-nosed pliers. I opened them and easily with one hand grabbed the plastic flap with the tool in my hand. I yanked it and the box fell open as if it had planned to do that for me but was just waiting until I realized what I needed to do.  


My tool kit in Roswell apartment
Sometimes it is the little things that surprise us or frustrate us. As I continue to live in my apartment in Roswell, GA, I face more and more challenges learning what I can do and what I can’t do.

Yesterday I held my Zoom, two-hour workshop for the Carl Sandburg Home Historic Site. It went very well, but up until 11:00 AM, we didn’t have good Internet connections. I had ordered a booster system for the Internet already in the house because here in the lower level, my connections were sketchy. After the booster system was installed last week, I came back to try it out on my computer. To my dismay, the Internet connection failed continually. I was worried.

On Monday, Gay and Stu called Best Buy, the Geek Squad, that installed the new system. They could not come on Monday but came late morning on Tuesday, the day I was to teach online. What a relief to see those guys.

With their help and advice, we “forgot” the Att Network, and made the new system the only network on our computers. Boy, I was relieved!

Yes, I am dealing with many new and challenging things these days, but it is wonderful to have two people here who will help me when things get tough.

I had many emails today from the students who were there last evening. I get a major high knowing I had reached people in ways that are helpful to them. A well-published author was among those who registered. She told me she got some great ideas for future stories and especially on how to write about her mother.

So many new things I need to learn, but I am extremely grateful that I am able to continue to reach people virtually, on this blog, on Zoom, and on email. I always enjoyed teaching in classrooms, around a table that connected us, but I feel sure I can continue to make those connections online.

I think about the men and women my age in Ukraine who are struggling just to keep alive, who might be trying to leave that war-torn country, who have physical disabilities like me. Who is there to help them? Are they having to stay there because they can’t handle the challenges ahead?

With all the changes in my life these past two years, I am so, so grateful that I have friends and family who will do whatever it takes to be sure I am Okay. No one could ask for more.

Eleanor Roosevelt said this:

"You have to accept whatever comes,

and the only important thing 

is that you meet it with the 

best you have to give."

Sunday, December 27, 2015

After Christmas - what now?

Christmas is over and life goes back to normal. 
Normal for  me will be training my puppy. She was an excitable little girl with her cousins to bark at and play with and with so many new people to jump on and faces to lick. January is going to be a time of concentrated training where I will learn how to control Lexie and she will learn that I am Alpha in this family.

I joined family and friends this Christmas for laughter and lots of good food. So much good food!! My niece Lee and her husband Dave, had us over for a great dinner. Dave cooked the most delicious tenderloin, and we brought our side dishes. Lee had fallen and dislocated her elbow a couple of days before but even with her arm in a sling, she was an excellent hostess.
Lyn Hunter, Real Estate Agent


We all congratulated Lyn who passed the test for her NC real estate license. Now she is licensed in Georgia and North Carolina. I hope she sells many, many houses in 2016, continuing her trend of pleasing clients.

Old friends Dick and Linda visited and brought a smoked turkey. Dick smokes a turkey every Christmas and shares with us. This year we vented about how fast the  world is changing including popular music.  We hate the way modern singers murder old familiar Christmas Carols. Why do they have to change the tunes we all love? In years to come, will the songs we have sung from childhood be jazzed up and made impossible for us to sing along?

We also discussed the  need for a landline phone even if you have cell phones. Cell phones often have no signal or lose signal while you are in the midst of a conversation. Between Murphy NC and Hayesville, NC we get no cell signal at all at certain places. My sister calls one of my nieces who cancelled her landline and uses only a cell phone and the signal drops out or is very sketchy when my niece is on her cell at home. We believe that just because something is new doesn't make it better. I will keep my landline which I can be sure will reach anyone I need in an emergency.  

Summer  weather in December??
Record warm temperatures in Atlanta required turning off the heat and going to air conditioning. I wish I had taken more summer clothes for the visit. Shorts or capris would have felt good with short sleeved shirts. The unusual weather brought bad storms and tornadoes to Mississippi andAlabama. It saddened me to  hear about the Christmas presents scattered up and down the streets and decorated trees thrown about as houses crashed down killing a number of people.

In our own joy we also stopped to be thankful for all our blessings and to think about those people who had lost so much.

Now I’m ready to head into a new year, to accomplish goals I’ve set and to stay as healthy as possible to complete my obligations to others.