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Showing posts with label June. Show all posts
Showing posts with label June. Show all posts

Sunday, June 8, 2025

Summer's gifts


As a child, I always looked forward to June. School was out. I could sleep until I woke up late in the morning. No pressure, no deadlines, no homework, just freedom, peace, and time to read and play. 

Our family never took vacations. We had a farm, and that meant working every single day to care for livestock, milk cows, and ensure all animals stayed within their confines. My father and his four sons worked all day, every weekday, in the fields. Summer was the growing season for peanuts, cotton, and corn. 

I was infatuated with corn. From its earliest days, when two shoots came out and tentatively tested the air, corn amazed me. Those two green shoots became a stalk with long leaves. Next, tiny ears of corn appeared on the stalks that were taller than I. I liked walking in corn rows. I felt like I was in a tunnel as the leaves reached out across the space between rows. 

As the corn matured, the plants towered over me, and the ears of corn grew fat in their husks. Silky streamers protruded from the ends, sometimes white or pink before they turned reddish-brown. They became the hair of glamorous girls in my imagination. Sometimes I stopped and braided the silks the way Mother braided my long hair. I learned that each strand of corn silk is connected with a kernel of corn.

We often had boiled corn for our midday meal, which we called dinner. It was so good with Mother's homemade butter. I hated the job of silking the corn. We had to find the tiny strings embedded between the rows of kernels. 

When I was a child, corn was not as sweet as it is today. It was always good, however. A few years ago, I bought some corn at an outdoor produce stand. The corn had been enhanced to make it extremely sweet. It did not taste natural. What disappointment! We humans think we must enhance or improve all of nature's plants to suit our cravings, sugar being one of the worst.

Here in the city where I now abide, Publix has begun buying fresh corn. My sister, Gay, has brought me several ears and I am happy to say they tasted good, not overly sweet. 

My deck garden is doing well. My squash plant has been full of yellow blooms. I hope they become crookneck squash. One of my tomato plants has three green babies, and one is beginning to blush. I can't grow corn on my deck, but I have flowers and lots of Hosta.

Yesterday, Stu, my bil, put up holders for my bird feeders and hung a plant holder on my deck. He is handy with a drill and a screw driver. He is also kind and helpful.

June is the birth month of my beloved sister, June. The 25th is embedded in my memory. I often say a little prayer of gratitude for having such a generous and loving person in my life, one of the women who made me who I am today. 

My sister, June, sitting in the chair. I miss her

If you are a regular reader, thanks so much for stopping in today. 
If you are new, please come back again soon.



Monday, June 7, 2021

June is a special month for me.



It is the beginning of summer where I live. Everything is green, flowers are blooming, and it seems to be a time when most people are smiling. Perhaps the warm weather and water sports bring out happiness in those who enjoy the sun.

Downhome on the farm, this time of year, we cleaned out the swimming pool and my brother Rex got the filter going and the chlorine in again after it had been shut down all winter. Much of our family's social life centered around that pool once the weather was warm. The water was always cold. 

Barry could spend hours there on weekends floating in his favorite pool chair. When he was a teenager, he worked as a lifeguard at the Rockmart, Georgia swimming pool every summer. He loved the water.

I was not much of a water bug and was afraid of water most of my life. 
I blame my brothers who teased me and liked to scare me when I was a little kid. They took me out in a boat on one of the farm ponds and when they rowed up to the bank to get out, instead of lifting me out, they left me in the boat and pushed it back into the pond. Of course, I was afraid they were going to leave me so I did what any kid would do -- I jumped out of the boat trying to reach land. I immediately sank like a rock in the deep murky water.

I am sure my brothers didn't expect that to happen. One of them jumped in and rescued me quickly, but that fear stayed with me most of my life. I never learned to swim very well. However, I learned to water ski with my brother, Rex, driving the boat. I wore a life jacket so was not scared of drowning.
We spent many hours at Lake Blackshear in south Georgia as guests of the Booth family. I have some great memories of those days. 

The month of June is special to me because my sister, June, was born on the 25th, in Pelham, Georgia and my brother, Ray, was born in Rubonia, Florida on June 27th two years later. Not a day passes that I don't think of them and how much I miss them. 
June and Ray, my sister and brother at the family Christmas Party 

This month is also special to me because Barry and I married on June 14. I tell my students to list the turning points in their lives. That day was a huge turning point in my life.  

Today in my world here in the mountains of western North Carolina, I cherish my memories as I work in my deck garden.
I enjoy all the plants in their pots, blooming and growing while I celebrate summer with little Lexie helping me keep the pesky squirrel from digging and uprooting my hosta. 

A pair of Eastern Bluebirds came to my door

A pair of Eastern bluebirds spent one day fluttering at my door and windows. They wanted to come inside. I have a bluebird box in the yard but think I need to clean it out from the last hatching. Maybe I should get another birdhouse for the pair that seems desperate for a place to nest right now. So many birds live around my home and I enjoy watching them.

With all the bad weather in parts of the US, I know many people are suffering from floods and tornadoes. I am afraid that climate change is wreaking havoc in places that used to be fairly safe. Stay safe and well until we meet again. 








Tuesday, July 9, 2013

SIX YEARS OF BLOGGING - SIX YEARS OF MY LIFE ONLINE WITH YOU

May, 2007 - I began this blog. More than 50,000 page views later, I am still here. I learned about blogging for the first time at a North Carolina Writers' Network Conference. I decided at that time to make a blog for our writers group, NCWN West. For six years I kept two blogs going and later three. Now I am back to two.

It's been six years since I jumped into blogging knowing little to nothing about what I was doing. But I learned. What a lifetime has happened in those six years.

You, my readers, have been with me here through some of the most painful events of my life. You have encouraged me when times were the darkest. You have supported me when I needed you. 

You are strangers I have never met, some I will never meet, and some of you are my family and my friends. Many of my readers visit here from other countries - Australia, England, Canada, Germany, France and Indonesia. 

You have blogs that I visit and enjoy. Some of you are my students from over the years, and some are visitors who happened upon my poetry book one day or read one of my stories online. 

Some of my readers began their own blogs when I held a class at our local library, and they got the bug. Some of them have made blogging friends all over the world. 

One of you used my poems along with beautiful paintings to make a most spectacular post. I was touched. 

My readers include those who are researching their family, working on their genealogy and have some of the same lines I have. Some of you are family I've never met and don't even know. Some of you are family that I met through this blog. That is so, so special!

It is because of you that I appreciate the Internet instead of hating the time I spend online when I could be writing stories, poems or personal essays. I don't care for Facebook and Twitter, but blogging is an excellent way to communicate, and as a writer, that is what I want to do - speak to people through writing.

Thanks for your time which I know is the most valuable commodity any of us have. I hope you will stay with me, and if you are not a subscriber, please take a look at the sidebar and sign on. It is free and easy. You are the best!