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Showing posts with label Roswell Public Works. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Roswell Public Works. Show all posts

Friday, September 30, 2022

Congratulations to Stu Moring

Stuart Moring in the gray suit standing beside his wife, my sister, Gay,
holding the proclamation about him and his military service during the Vietnam War.

It was a proud moment when the city of Roswell, Georgia, where Stu served for twenty years or more as Public Works Director, recognized him as an Outstanding Veteran of Roswell on Monday night at a meeting at the courthouse. 

A proclamation about his achievements was read and then presented to him as you see in the above photograph.

Stu comes from a family that made service to the country a big part of their lives. His father Walt and his brother Doug as well as his sister-in-law Mary, all wore military uniforms.

After he completed undergraduate studies at the University of Illinois, Stu joined the United States Navy. His education as an engineer made him very useful as a member of the the Seabees. He was sent to Vietnam in 1972 where he was made responsible for large projects requiring building and rebuilding bridges, roads, and other things often destroyed by the enemy. When his tour was over and he came home, he, in his twenties, was then sent to Guantanamo Bay in Cuba to be in charge of 150 men. His leadership qualities were strong even then. 

As veterans of the Vietnam War, the young men came home to no large welcome or parades thanking them for their service. No one ever said thank you to Stu and others who risked their lives fulfilling their duties for the United States. These young men did not create the war nor were they able to end it. Only those in Washington D.C. could do that. But when these veterans came home they were often shamed and belittled.

That is why Monday night was a very special event. The City Council of Roswell made a point to thank Stu for his service in Vietnam as they have done for some others. How sad that it took fifty years for someone to do that, but how grateful I am that they did and I was there to see and celebrate with this fine man. I also delighted in hearing others exclaim about all he has done for the city of Roswell. He retired a few years ago, but many councilmen and women shook his hand and greeted him warmly. Even those who were not on the Council before he retired. said they continue to hear about Stu Moring. 

People like me have no idea what engineers do and how they do it and they might think that hearing him talk about problems he solved, the difficulties he faced, and the confidence he had to have in himself to accomplish hard tasks would be boring, but it is not. 

Stu has led an interesting life and one that is a good example for others. I have urged him to write a memoir and share his story. Maybe one day he will decide to do that.  

Do you have family members who served in Viet Nam? Do you know how they feel about how they were treated when they came home?

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Stu Moring, family, friend, and fun

Who is the CAT IN THE HAT? No, it isn't Dr. Zeus. It is the Public Works Director of Roswell, Georgia. Most importantly, to me, he is husband to my sister, Gay. Stu is a part of a project of the Kiwanis club called "Roswell Read-In" where members and city officials read to kids in the library at the schools. This program is sponsored by Kiwanis.

I adore the above photo of this man who manages large projects and leads many employees who respect and enjoy working for him. He has won numerous awards. We attended a special ceremony last year. Stu was selected from candidates all over the United States as one of the top ten public works directors in the country. What an honor!

But what I love best about him is his joyous attitude, his enthusiasm, his genuine caring for those near him. His tender heart is as big as the circle of people who know and appreciate him. That is a big heart!
And he is fun. At Christmas, Stu is the official Santa. That has been a long, long tradition in our family. Some years ago when we lived in the same city, I enjoyed watching him in community stage plays. He sings, acts, and tells funny stories. He and Gay are big fans of live theatre. Thanks to those two, BB and I have seen some excellent productions in Atlanta.

His sport is running. He ran a marathon just a few years ago and he runs in the Peachtree Road Race almost every year. Running helps relieve stress, he says, and his job is packed with it.

I wasn't surprised to see Stu Moring sitting with kids and reading Dr. Zeus. When he is not working for the city, he is often working for Fulton County Charities, his church or another organization that helps the people in his community. He used to read for the blind. Maybe he still does that. I can't keep up and he seldom talks about his volunteer work.

While the country is trembling in fear of what will happen to us with the bad economy, Stu and Gay will hold out a helping hand. They believe in paying it forward.

In 2006 Gay met a woman who struck her as a person who could get back on her feet with some help. She wanted to help this Katrina victim who was losing her flooded home in New Orleans.
Gay and Stu put together a list of everyone they knew, wrote letters and asked everyone they knew to donate a small amount each month. People responded just like the Morings did, with generous hearts. That fund helped save this family from homelessness. Gay kept donors informed of the family's progress for over a year.
Good people seldom make the news these days. Bad people are on our TV screens, front page of magazines and newspapers, and bad news permeates our media. We all know of people like Stu and Gay who reach out to help others.
Wouldn't it be great if we had a page in each newspaper headed: Good News and Good People? If we did, I am sure the Morings would make the news.