While I had time at the beginning of this year, I am got back to doing
genealogy research. I joined Ancestry again last year and find it frustrating
as do many others. My friend, Mary Mike Keller, a genealogist who is amazing in
all she knows about using the Internet for research, says they have not made her work easier.
I have been looking for information on a cousin who
was killed during World War II. I found his picture in a high school year book.
I found him in the 1940 Census at home with his parents. He was seventeen years
old.
I know that he was killed flying an airplane over
the Gulf of Mexico by what is called “friendly fire” meaning his plane was shot
down by American forces. How did that happen, no one knows. At the time he was
killed, Henry Robison was married and his wife was pregnant.
Henry never saw his little boy. His son, named after
his father, never knew his dad. He was raised by a good man, his stepfather,
who was the only dad he knew.
I decided to see what I could find online about my young
cousin Henry Robison, the son of Mother’s oldest brother Avon Robison.
The young man serving in the Army Air Force, was killed and his body never
found. Although his father walked the beach daily crying as the search for his
son went on, he was never given any explanation as to what happened. For the
rest of his life and that of his wife, Lela, their tiny house was a shell where
sorrow’s shroud wrapped all who entered and permeated each thought and act of
Avon and Lela.
I visited them with my mother when I was a child,
and I still see the older couple with tears on their cheeks when they talked
about their son. Their sense of
hopelessness was so profound that even a child like me felt the stabbing pain
of their loss. Henry’s photographs wearing his uniform hung on every wall, and
I remember how handsome he was.
Henry had a sister and I often wondered how she must
have felt after her brother was killed. The mourning never ended in that
house. But I believe from what I have
found in my research that the sister was married before young Henry was killed.
I asked Mary Mike where I might find more information
about Henry. She sent me to a place online that had him listed as casualty not
in a battle. He was a lieutenant. I thought that spoke well of the boy since he
couldn’t have been in service very long. The information Mary Mike sent me
reported his death in June 1946.
That little boy who was born after his father was
shot down, is now a man in his seventies, retired professor with a PhD. He had
a successful and outstanding career. His research has been published in many
papers and books. He is highly regarded in his field of Science. He grew up
with two half-brothers he loved and has a family of his own. But lately he has
wanted to know more about his biological father’s family which is also my
family.
At one time he pursued an effort to learn what the
government had in their files pertaining to his father’s death. He was sent
reports but most of the text was blacked out. He learned no more than what Avon
had been told. Even after all these years, he was unable to get the true story
of what happened that awful day.
I am told that with Henry’s serial number, which I
now have, his son, Rob can write and perhaps get more information than he had
before.
Aunt Mildred and Aunt Red (Earline) We miss them. |
Rob has taken a keen interest in learning more about
his Robison ancestors, and I plan to work with him and share all I have
gathered over the years. When he comes down to Georgia to visit this spring, I
plan to meet him and we will talk to all the people still living who knew his
grandparents and perhaps even his father.
I am enjoying learning more and more about my
mother’s side of the family. I am family historian and I want to write about
the Robison history as I did the Council history in my book, Profiles
and Pedigrees, Thomas Charles Council and his Descendants. Mary Mike
said she has been reading my book and found the stories in the book extremely
interesting. I was delighted that she liked it. She is writing her own family
history which will include famous people from many countries and hundreds of
years ago. Her descendants will have a book to treasure for generations to
come.
We descendants of William Henry and Malula Jones
Robison will gather in May in Albany, GA. If any of my readers are relatives,
you can contact me for more information about the reunion.
Most of our large family a few years ago down in south Georgia |
It is so sad when a couple who loses a child never move beyond it. You must have been very sensitive to have picked up on it all as a young child. You do have a knack for writing, so I'm sure your family will be very happy with your family history. :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks, DJan. I have been told that I feel too much and always have. Some like me are called empaths because of the extreme empathy we feel. Perhaps that is why the sadness that filled that house still touches me when I remember. Having lost two children, you can relate to what my uncle and aunt went through. I can't imagine the grief a mother must feel when her child dies.
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